As parents, we often remember the days when we were kids and the endless amount of time that we spent outside without the distractions of video games and iPhones. We long for our own kids to have those moments of getting messy in the creek or simply enjoy a quiet time with their favorite hobby. However, with the inundation of electronics in our current culture, it seems impossible to give our children those expressive and engaging moments.
You don’t have to look too far though to find those idyllic experiences for your own child. Many are readily available in your own neighborhood.
Consider Going Local
If you’re wanting to get your kids out of the house and exploring the world around them, consider having them join a local club such as 4H or the Girl/ Boy Scouts of America. These clubs get children out in to the community and offer them several experiences they otherwise might not have including animal husbandry, sewing, and gardening.
Joining local clubs and group, such as Girl Scouts and 4H, are also beneficial for children because they give children the opportunity to both engage with and benefit the community they live in. Being an active member of the community teaches children civility, accountability, and responsibility which are all wonderful moral lessons to carry through life.
Think Musically
Turning your child on to music can be one of the greatest gifts you ever give them. Not only does music enhance your child’s creativity, but it has also been proven to help their academic lives as well.
Many schools offer opportunities for your child to become involved in band, orchestra, or choir. However, school extracurricular activities aren’t for everyone. If your child is interested in music, but not in being a part of school musical activities, consider other avenues. Through LessonRating, parents are able to find music instructors in their areas to offer private lessons. Local conservatories and community colleges may also offer youth courses, and many cities now have Schools of Rock that their children can attend to attain an education in more modern music.
Pick Up the Paintbrushes
If your kid is more crafty and creative, consider fostering their growth as an artist. The fine arts are wonderful ways in which your children can learn to better express themselves, engage the world abstractly, and think critically. Like music, children that are more versed in the fine arts, are more likely to do better emotionally and academically.
Art courses for kids can usually be found at area schools, local community colleges and universities, and museums that may be in your city. However, you don’t have to enroll your child into an art class to foster their creative desires. Simply the act of buying them paintbrushes, paints, canvases, pencils, and other art supplies can nurture their creativity, and help turn that creativity into a lifetime activity.
Get Lost in a Book Club
Book clubs aren’t just for adults. In fact, kids can get involved in book clubs through their local libraries or start their own. Local libraries typically offer activities that coincide with the books kids are reading to maintain interest and to help kids get the most out of their reading experiences.
However, you don’t have to rely on libraries to take your children on wild adventures in books. You can help your child create a local book club, and then, with the help of sites like Pinterest, come up with numerous activities that support their reading experiences. Building rafts to mimic Huck Finn’s or creating their own ‘District’ costume to pay homage to the Hunger Games are a few reading activity favorites!
Think Family
Activities for your children don’t have to be solo activities for your children. Parents are the best kind of role models, and can demonstrate positive behaviors that can get your kids off the couch and exploring the world around them in real time. If you have some free time, consider taking your children to local museums, the zoo, the area state parks, and any other places that may spark their curiosity. You’ll get some great quality time with your kids, and you may just stumble upon an activity that may turn in to your kid’s passion.
Dance, outdoor sports leagues, theatre, hooping – the list is endless. Childhood doesn’t need to be experienced behind the screen of an iPhone or iPad, and for parents who want more creative, eco-friendly, and engaging experiences for their children, there is a wide array of activities. They simply need to look for them.
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11 responses to “5 Ways To Engage With Your Kids Without Electronics”
I agree! Most of the time, my son is on the computer or laptop watching YouTube and I know for a fact that he hasn’t really explored the outside world that much. So one of my goals this month is to bring him to a zoo! 🙂
At the moment I’m engaging the kids in doing Hama bead crafts. We also go to the park/ playground a couple of times a week so that they have the chance to expand their energy.
This is great! I really should take my kids on a nature walk! Thanks for the idea.
That is one thing my kids love to do.. is draw/paint or just create with the paper..
It’s sports for us! My son loves swimming, and next weekend he’ll be doing martial arts. 🙂
Some really great ideas! We like to do “movie night’ where we all snuggle together and watch a movie and eat popcorn (or pizza)..thanks for sharing!
Maybe even going out on a nice hike or something like that would be perfect!
great ideas. We try to have times where we play games and no electronics are allowed.
I’m glad you are recommending things that don’t involve electronics… Remember back in the day when we all had conversations, games to play and active imaginations? Phew! Times have changed. 🙂
I think all familes need to have a few days a week where they do not have video games,phones,tv etc.. and just reconnect as a family,,play a board game etc
I highly recommend unplugging as a family! Another great option is to use activity books. Benjamin Franklin said it best, “Tell me and I forget. Teach me and I remember. Involve me and I learn.” The more we involve our kids unplugged, the more they will learn valuable life lessons. I recently launched an activity book called The SMART Playbook – game-changing life skills for a modern world. This book is a collaborative effort to teach kids social skills and manners. Fun for kids. Easy for parents. Social skills the SMART way. Hope you will check it out and get unplugged!
Best, Suzanne