Online Monitoring Creates Accountability
Parents should find a way to monitor their teenagers social media use while still maintaining their privacy. A teenager may feel threatened when you tell them that they have to add you to their friend list; however, explain to them that you care about them and want to make sure that they follow the rules. If you are uncomfortable with adding your teenager as a friend, you can designate someone to “check on” them and report any misbehavior or abuse to you. This will hold your child accountable and protect them from the dangerous activity on the Internet.
Why is it Important to Follow your Teenager on Social Media Platforms?
Following your teen online not only protects them from online dangers. Many young people don’t fully understand the dangers because they are still naive and they don’t realize that they could be potentially putting themselves in harms way. If you are following your teen, then you can chime in when you feel that your teen is engaging in harmful activity or potentially harmful situations. Instead of, getting upset with them and punishing them on the first offense, use it as a teaching opportunity. Explain to them what they are doing that is dangerous and tell them why it is dangerous. Let your teenager know that you care about their safety and want to help them.
To Be Continued: Teach Your Child the Dangers That Lurk on the Internet – Part 3
Does your child use the computer or a smart phone? Do you monitor their social media activity?