When Should I Have My Baby Shower?
Many new mother’s are often asked by their hosts, when should the baby shower be scheduled. The baby shower should typically be held six to eight week prior to the baby’s expected due date. Why should I have my baby shower that early? The goal of a baby shower is to prepare the mother with the tools that she needs in order to care for her newborn. As most people know, babies usually tend to be in control and they decide when they should make an entrance into the world. If you have the baby shower, six to eight weeks prior to the anticipated due date, most mom’s can be prepared in case her baby decides to come earlier than the anticipated due date. Plus, it allows the parents to purchase any additional items that they need before the baby arrives.
Baby Shower Etiquette
- Never host your own baby shower.
- Make sure that most of your guests can come to the shower (ie close family members and grandparents)
- A baby shower can be held after the baby is born, if necessary.
- Pick reasonably priced stores for your gift registry.
- Don’t be greedy.
- Add a variety of items to your registry that will fit everyone’s budget. (don’t register for only big ticket items)
- Specify on the invite if children can’t attend the baby shower.
Dealing With Guests Who are Against Multiple Baby Showers for Subsequent Children
The customary tradition was to hold a baby shower for a mother’s first pregnancy; however, many people feel that each baby should be celebrated. In fact, if your friends throw you a baby shower for subsequent babies, you may have a few disgruntled friends who think that you are only after the gifts since most mom’s already have most of the items left over from their first pregnancy. Try not to get upset if you find out that a few of your guests are upset over this subject and try not to let it bother you. If you really want them to come to your baby shower, you can ask them to come to the shower to celebrate the new baby and ensure them that they don’t have to bring a gift. Remember, that you can’t please everyone and everyone is entitled to their own opinion.
Did you have a baby shower for your baby? Did you have a shower for each one of your children?